EXECUTIVE MEN’S COACHING

Over the years of coaching approx. 100 clients in different intimate spaces, I realized this common thread…

On a path of personal development or spiritual growth,

we often try way too hard.

Trying to force change and better life situations, while we are overwhelmed and our nervous system is overstimulated.

While deep down, we actually don’t feel okay with ourselves, carrying the shame of feeling like we should be further ahead.

I struggled with this for a long, long time.. Always feeling like I had so much more potential, and that I was still falling short, not reaching my goals. Then making this lack of accomplishment about myself, looping in this feeling and pain that I wasn’t good enough.

However, in the last 2-3 years..

I feel like I made some really deep breakthroughs in actually feeling at peace within myself, and letting go of the struggle. Coming to a place where I feel a deep sense of contentment, despite the fact that I still have goals and things I’d like to achieve that haven’t arrived yet.

I call this type of contentment being in our natural, relaxed self. This is the place where your true freedom is found.

Getting to this place was a brutal journey that required me to:

  • finally let go of trying to prove something to myself

  • put aside 95% of the spiritual and personal growth tools you can find out there that are always pushing you to do more, be more and add more to your practice.

  • stop rigidly working on myself and actually learn to be myself

The deal is…

When we find this thing called “personal development” or the “spiritual path”, we inevitably fall into the trap of overworking and making us into a project.

Which takes you further and further away from true internal relaxation, and being yourself.

The inner work and self-analysis becomes a place we hide in, while life wants us to step out of this bubble and focus on leading with love independent of our life situation.

This is what I advocate and help you with in my WHOLENESS Coaching.

Here’s what’s unique about WHOLENESS coaching:

  • The focus is an inner transformation that leaves you feeling self-assured and confident - not chasing goals that leave you exhausted.

  • There will be no agenda to fix you or make you different — in fact this whole coaching approach is to help you feel the peace of being yourself, as you are, radically transforming the relationship you have with yourself.

  • So much of the healing and transformation is having someone in your corner that loves you as you are, acknowledges you and affirms you deeply for your consistent progress. The energy of having someone believe in you and see you is transformational, and a big part of my work is this.

  • This isn’t a coaching program with an agenda to get you to buy, promising you a bunch of external results. Freedom coaching is about relaxing back into your natural self, healing wounds so you can feel more confident to love deeply, and coming back to a life lived authentically. I will do everything to support you in exactly this transformation.

Come back to what’s authentic.

Here’s the thing..

When it comes to stepping into more of our natural self — reclaiming our authentic freedom — everyone needs different ingredients.

At the end of the day, it comes down to balance & harmony. Bringing into balance the things that are unbalanced and making the choice to stop hiding.

While for you it might mean to create a strong boundary with inner work and self-analysis, because you’ve been going way too hard in that direction..

for others it could be about embracing more vulnerability and learning to live from the heart.

With WHOLENESS Coaching, my intention is to create a customized program (10-12 sessions over the span of 3-6 months) that supports you in feeling more authentic and whole in yourself.

Based on what you struggle with and what’s holding you back from experiencing more inner freedom…

…whether that’s:

  • a lack of self-trust, self-assuredness and confidence that shows itself in your relationships and work life.

  • overstimulation & overwhelm from trying too hard, going too fast when the need is to slow down

  • anxiety and a feeling of freeze when it comes to taking inspired action steps that deep down call you

  • the inability to really relax into yourself

  • or a combination of these…

we will create a powerful coaching program that helps you step towards what you authentically want without you burning out or over-trying.

The focus is for you to undergo a transformation that leaves you feeling fulfilled, relaxed, proud of yourself and connected to your spirit (more so than trying to frantically change yourself and achieve something).

If you’re in or want to learn more, book a call with me here.

  • you struggle with the fix-myself mentality and can relate to inner work feeling heavy and disempowering — you want a different approach that actually creates an internal embodied shift rather than becoming hyper-aware in the name of growth.

  • it’s difficult for you to slow down and feel grounded. You want your nervous system and inner state to be more relaxed, so you can move towards your dreams and goals with ease versus struggle.

  • you know you can improve your relationship with yourself — deepening love and care towards yourself, transforming self-criticism into acknowledgement and self-assurance.

  • you want to feel more connected to your purpose and inner ‘Why’ and have someone in your corner that believes in you. Someone that’s equally loving, but also fiercely invites you to see yourself bigger than you ever have.

  • you desire a safe space to talk through your challenges — both emotionally and in life. A sounding board that provides the presence and spaciousness to become clear & feel internally resolved.

This work is a good fit for you, IF:

BOOK a CALL

If the idea of WHOLENESS Coaching resonates with you, I invite you to a call with me.

This is a 0 pressure call, where we will only work together if:

  • you feel excited, inspired and resonant with WHOLENESS Coaching and me as your Coach.

  • I feel a good collaborative energy between us that feels right for me.

If anything isn’t 100% of the above, we will hold off for now and celebrate our meeting nevertheless.